2012: A Mix of Good & Bad

As life gets busier, it's been hard for me to keep up this blog, but I wanted to try to end the year with some updates.  2012 was a very eventful year in my daughter, Holly's life.  She made her first Communion in May and took her first plane trip to Disney World in November.  Just a week before we left for Florida, Hurricane Sandy hit the LI/New York area.  We were lucky to have only lost power for less than two days, while many lost it for two weeks or longer.  We also had no significant damage to our home.  The day after we arrived in Orlando, a Northeaster hit causing snow and more damage to the northeast.  Our flight home was equally uneventful, although we left a day later due to having come down with stomach poisoning the last day of our trip.  Otherwise, we had a wonderful vacation and one worth remembering for a long time.  Below are some photos from our trip.

Holly's favorite part of the trip was meeting the princesses and Tinkerbell and getting all their autographs.  She also loved dressing up as Aurora, her favorite princess, and received the royal treatment at the Bibbity Bobbity Boutique.  Afterwards, she got to ride on a balloon!

Another favorite part of the trip was the Animal Kingdom where she took a safari and explored the wilds of Africa.  There was even a petting zoo of less wild animals.

The Hawaiian luau was a lot of fun, and the whole family got a photo together.

The airports were fun, too, especially the shopping.  But baggage claim was also cool.

 

 

It will be interesting to see what adventures await us in 2013.  Happy New Year!

 

Health Literacy Exhibit in SL is True to Life

Brielle Coronet has put up an important exhibit at the Info-lit ischool in Second Life.  It focuses on health literacy and features three quizzes on heart attack, stroke, and medical terminology.  If you finish them correctly, not only will you gain important health information, but you will receive a small prize.  There are also free t-shirts and several informative notecards.  After you've finished taking the quizzes, you can also take an online survey about the exhibit which you are encouraged to do.  Brielle is also presenting about these SL gamesin real life at the MLA Quad in Baltimore on October 14.  This exhibit is part of October's Health Literacy Month.

Health literacy impact all areas of your life, from understanding what your doctor has told you, to reading instructions on a bottle of medicine, to  being aware of signs and symptoms of illness.
Brielle Coronet is a Medical Library Director at a teaching hospital in New Jersey. Her IRB approved research study researches the use of online games to improve health literacy about heart attack, stroke, womens' heart health and commonly used medical terminology and whether the games can impact future health care decisions
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This research study was awarded a National Library of Medicine/ National Institutes of Health Small Projects Grant and was also recognized by the Medical Library Association’s Hospital Libraries Section Award for Research. Brielle has presented at national and international conferences about this study.
 http://slurl.com/secondlife/Infolit%20iSchool/54/30/22



Another exhibit for Health Literacy Month is a Virtual Hallucinations exhibit..  This exhibit allows visitors to discover what it's like to live with Schizophrenia. 

Although the exhibit can be viewed at any time, there are some special exhibit dates and hours that they may be guided:
FRI Oct 12, noon SLT
SAT Oct 13, 4pm SLT
SUN Oct 14 10am SLT

This clinic was built so people who do not have schizophrenia can experience a bit what life is like for those who do have this form of mental illness. It was built by professors and honors students from the University of California, Davis.

Virtual Hallucinations
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Sedig/27/44/22

You arrive at the entrance to the clinic. You can click a barrel to get a notecard if you wish. A copy of that notecard is attached here:

Then click a yellow can to get a Hallucinations Badge. It will go into your inventory. You should WEAR the badge before you enter the clinic. It will take a short time to load.

Once you go inside, you can choose to be either a male or female patient, again by clicking another yellow can. The table where you make these choices is also where you can switch off the voices (although a person with schizophrenia is not able to do that, of course!).

When you are ready for the full experience, click the doors to your left and enter the clinic. Look around in all the rooms. Blue cones explain some of the symptoms of schizophrenia.

It is recommended that you go through the exhibit using Mouselook. The researchers also recommended that you go through it alone, but you may feel safer with a friend.

WARNING: Some people find this exhibit deeply disturbing. Please remember that you can stop the voices in several ways:
(1) you can click the yellow can at the beginning or end of the tour, labeled "STOP VOICES"
(2) you can DETACH the Hallucination Badge
and as always
(3) you can turn off Second Life (but the voices will come back when you relog)
(4) you can turn off your computer (but the voices will come back when you relog).

Also, on October 14, the installation "Virginia Alone" by Bryn Oh will open at
11am SLT at Immersiva
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Immersiva/19/128/21

Virginia is over 80 years old, blind, and schizophrenic. She lives alone, far from town in the Canadian countryside. Her mental illness causes her to live in an altered reality.

SL artist Bryn Oh met Virginia over a year ago. Virginia's life was so interesting, Bryn decided to make an art installation exploring her life.

Read more about this remarkable installation here:
http://brynoh.blogspot.com/2012/06/virginia-alone.html

We will not only get a guided tour of the installation, but Bryn will explain all the artistic elements that she derived from spending time with Virginia and Virginia's documentation of her own life.

Presenter Bio:
Bryn Oh is a professional oil painter who has come into Second Life to create new media art ideas that don't work as well in the oil painting medium.

Presentation in text (with optional voice transcription).

It seems health exhibits are alive and well in Second Life. 

A Little Bit Country at Rainbow Gardens

The Bluegrass Country Band performing at Rainbow Gardens

On September 9, Rainbow Gardens hosted the Bluegrass Country Band, for a Hoe Down country music concert.  The event was well attended with folks coming in casual dress, cowboy/cowgirl outfits, and everything in between.  Besides some nice country music, the Hoe Down featured bull riding, farm animals, barbecue and beer. 

September's Noah Wish Exhibit

Rainbow Gardens Pet Memorial Center is a non-profit memorial in Second Life dedicated to providing consolation to those mourning the loss of real life pets.  Rainbow Gardens has a Second Life and Facebook group.  Events, such as the Hoe Down and previous Scottish Dance, as well as exhibits related to pets and animals are scheduled regularly, and announced on these groups. Upcoming events will include a Halloween dance, Salsa, and Beatles Nights.  The current exhibit is "Noah's Wish" created by Francesca Alva, a Noah's Ark-like exhibit with information on an animal charity,  http://noahswish.org/.

Garden Gift Shop will help to raise funds for Rainbow Gardens

The new Garden Shop, located at Rainbow Gardens, sells low-cost items with a pet or memorial theme.  Currently, our cat and dog rescue t-shirts are available as well as a personal memorial that can be customized and set on one's own land.  More items will be available soon.
Slurl to Rainbow Gardens: http://slurl.com/secondlife/Cybrary%20City%20II/225/117/22

 

Virtual Arguments Cause Real Pain

These last few weeks have not been good for me.  Besides learning that a very good friend from library school whom I hadn't seen in years passed away (She called me a few days before she died), I also lost a very close virtual friend but not through death but through something I truly regret saying.  I've tried to apologize.  I admitted I was wrong.  I asked for a chance to talk.  I wrote an email explaining how life is too short to be angry at friends and telling him how badly I felt about what I had done.  No response.  I'm hoping this just means he's busy in real life or just not ready to make up yet and not that our friendship is over.  But all I want is to know one way or the other.  It's so true that the worse punishment someone can give you when they're mad is to ignore you.

As I grieve for my girlfriend from library school, I also grieve for my virtual friend.  We had some really great times together, and we used to talk in Facebook as well as in Second Life.  We worked together, explored together, danced together, and, sure, we had arguments, but I never expected it to end this way.  There were times I thought things weren't working, but I couldn't just walk away.  All friends have fights.  That doesn't mean they don't care for one another.  And just because you meet someone online and never "see" them in person, doesn't mean you can't develop feelings for them, doesn't mean you can't be real friends as well as virtual friends.  So when something like this happens, the pain is very real.  Believe me, it's as real as my apology.  I truly hope my virtual friendship isn't over.  I still mean what I wrote in the poem below that I shared at a Poetryfest in SL.

Virtual Friend

We met in a virtual world
a place created from fantasy
yet the friendship we formed was based on truth and reality
I can't fully grasp all that you've come to mean to me
I can tell you things that I can share with no other
I have no fear that you will hurt me, and you know your confidences are safe with me
You see me clearer than those who see me every day
even though you've never laid eyes on me
You touch me deeper than those who are always by my side
even though you've never laid a hand on me
Your support strengthens and encourages me
I am glad to share your sorrow,
You can heal my pain
just by listening.
And when we laugh together, it's at the same jokes
the ones written in the same books
but we read them from miles apart, worlds apart, and yet they are so close
as close as we are virtually.

Where does one find a friend? Not just an acquaintance but someone true, someone honest like you?
Age doesn’t matter, sex doesn’t matter
and distance matters even less
I guess
we never would've met years ago
before technology gave us a way
Today
there are so many ways to stay in touch online
You're always there for me
and I am thankful I found you along the path
It's a lonely walk otherwise
And when we walk it together, it's the same path
the one we follow that leads the same way
but we walk it from miles apart, worlds apart, and yet we are so close virtually.

Goodbye, InfoIsland!

At the July 29 CVL meeting that followed up an earlier meeting to address the future of the Community Virtual Library in Second Life, Abbey Zenith and Rocky Vallejo announced that InfoIsland would be closing as of February, 2013.  It is also very possible that Cybrary City II, currently under management by Rocky and not part of CVL but where many libraries and librarian-run groups reside, will also close if no one is able to take it over by February. 

While this news was not exactly a surprise, it was no less disappointing.  For the CVL volunteers who have spent countless hours working, playing, building on InfoIsland for the last six years, it is a tough pill to swallow.  The only plus side is that the Community Virtual Library, while downsizing, will not disappear.  It will be moved to a smaller space on Imagination Island that it will share with Rachelville and Seanchi.  There will be monthly exhibits and a meeting space.  The new location was shown on a map that those attending the meeting were able to copy.

Dancing Up a Storm

Last weekend was my daughter's dance recital.  She's been taking dance classes the last four years since she was 3 at Ella Marie Dance School.  In all her previous recitals, she performed once on a Sunday.  This year, for her ballet recital, she had to perform in three shows -- one on Friday night and two on Saturday!  For all of this, she received her first trophy (in the last three years, she just got a ribbon).  Now I think I am eligible for a trophy, as well, for attending each performance, getting her ready for each performance, toting along all her touch up supplies, etc.  But, in the end, it was all worth it.  Below are some photos of her in her costume before and after the show and also of her receiving her trophy.

Exploring the Atlantis Aquarium on a Field Trip

On May 29, I went on a field trip with my daughter's class.  Despite the hot weather and the bus ride with a group of second graders (an experience to remember), it all turned out nice.  The Atlantis Aquarium (recently renamed the Long Island Aquarium), has many sites to see, shows, and exhibits.  Holly especially enjoyed feeding the stingrays and bought a stuffed one in the gift shop. 

One of the best exhibits, besides the fish, sharks, sea lions, penguins, and monkeys was the butterfly and birds exhibit.  Set in two wonderland-type rooms, the children enjoyed seeing the beautiful butterflies and were actually able to feed the birds (using hand sanitizer).  My daughter was a bird feeding expert from her time at the White Post Farms bird area.  Many birds landed on her and one took up residence on her head for a moment!

We had lunch in the cafeteria and then departed on the bus after a day of fun exploring.